Five months ago I became a founder for the first time. I am not a total novice to the Valley; I’ve been fortunate to work with and befriend some very smart (and now influential) people from companies like Google and Powerset. But I am also a Midwesterner who migrated to the Valley in the late ’90s, and my resume includes staid institutions like NASA, which while innovative is not exactly a go-go Silicon Valley company. I tend to think of myself as a member of the Valley “digernati” — working off Valleywag’s radar, not a member of those startup mafias that seem to follow every liquidity event.
Still, one thing that has happily surprised me is my success at networking my way to just about anyone I wish, or need, to see — even if I’ve never met the person previously. Granted the connections often take longer than I’d like, but 9 times out of 10, when I reach out to find someone, it produces an email exchange, a phone call or a meeting. This is how I got to critical partners, added advisors, and found new hires.
Friends tell me: “You’re such a natural networker!” and it makes me laugh. As an engineer who spent most of his awkward teens in his bedroom writing code, I couldn’t disagree more. The truth is that I have taught myself to network, and I work at it — a lot.
Maybe it is consistent with being a geek, but I actually honed my relationship-building skills through practice and experimentation: I took a year sabbatical when the dotcom bubble burst and during this time, the only contract I made with myself was that I would focus on building my professional relationships. I learned some important lessons about networking during this time. Maybe they will also be helpful to you: Continue Reading